Coaching
The Road Home
If you're reading this, I make the assumption that you're seeking help. Are you unhappy in your marriage or relationship? Has someone close to you died and you don't know how to grieve? Are you on your knees and can't get back up? Do you feel depressed, anxious or lost?
If you've reached the point where you've accepted you can't do it alone, then I'd say you're making progress. Admitting you need help is the first step towards improving your situation. Next, is to find someone you trust to share your pain with.
My work focuses on exploring the myths and stories you've made up about yourself and others and then expressing the grief so that new solutions and strategies can be found to bring you back home.
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My Story
From very young, I was interested in what makes people tick; this led me to a career in acting. My job was to understand the motives, feelings and history of the character I was playing and then bring them to life. I spent 27 years in the acting business plying my trade and was successful, playing many great parts in the West End, on tour, and on TV. Eventually though, I became disillusioned with the industry and decided to leave. I chose to work on myself instead of trying to get under other people's skin. I believe "it begins and ends with the man." (Coach EO) Men are the creators, providers, builders and protectors of society. When men know their worth they bring so much positivity to the world. Unfortunately, when we are misguided, elder-less, fatherless and feminised, the consequence is dangerous, angry, emotional males looking and longing for their fathers and elders. This is a mess, particularly for women that need men who lead, protect, provide and care for them. ​I see how lost some men are, and so have dedicated what time I have left to counsel, coach and mentor men to be what the world needs to be: which is strong, reliable, leader-full, stoic, kind fair, resilient, and most of all, masculine. ​I'm a psychodrama facilitator, relationship counsellor and group leader. In my day job I work for Sussexpathways, supporting young men in the criminal justice system. I also volunteer for abandofbrothers and lead Rites of Passage weekends for 18 to 25 year old men. ​I am committed to encouraging men to be better.